July 10, 2003

• I read every  comment and every single one has valid points. I completely agree with randy, it’s not a southern thing it’s a human thing, and deadstars about it being a different generation, I believe that too.  I am so bad at confrontation that unless I’m backed into a corner with no chance of getting out of one, I will find a way to avoid it, so confrontation is not really my first choice of things to do.  I’m not so frustrated that I can’t let it go until next time.  If he brings it up again I will, with respect, tell him to “get a grip”. Then start naming names and ask him if he or I should stop loving them now that he knows their gay.  I know he can’t stop loving them, so that will allow me to also ask him if we should be allowed to tell them who they can love.  As if a person has a choice.  I personally can’t imagine anyone in the world with Fred other than Marcus.    So maybe that will get him to thinking.  Also knowing that I care so deeply about these people in my life will stop him from saying anything more.  Just to spare my feeling.  If he wants to hold them in until they rot then there’s nothing I can change about that.  At least he will know where his daughter stands. 

  
  

  You guys have helped tremendously and I appreciate it more than you know.  It’s nice to know I can get a sane perspective when needed, and an insane one when I need a laugh.  indie

  
  

  And then of course if all else fails there’s always Jerry Springer!!  lol

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