February 20, 2006
-
How many of you know the good about me?
http://kevan.org/johari?name=indigoladyHow many know the bad?
http://kevan.org/nohari?name=indigoladyDo we really care to know what others think of us? Truly?
The thing is, it is so easy to hear people tell you that your kind or
giving or blah, blah, blah. But the not so nice things….well
that’s a whole different proposition. I’m not saying I want you
to walk up to me and tell me what a bitch you think I am.
That isn’t so nice and not very productive to boot. But if your
told in a non-confrontational way some of your bad traits then you can
work on them. Or I should say I can work on them.
Notice I put the good one up to. That’s so that after the
trashing you give me I can go look at all my nice traits too. I
know they are there…lol.
And here’s what I truly think. I would rather you be honest than
nice. Or if you just have no clue then don’t do it at all.
After all its a blog not life and death.
Thanks to Mystic for showing me where to find a johari. I won’t
link her because she didn’t say I could, but she does get my thanks and
the credit.
Comments (3)
Dang…I don’t KNOW you well enough to fill those, but I guess I could try.
All I know of you is what I’ve read here and your comments to me … and of all of those interactions, I’ve never observed anything negative, so I couldn’t complete that one. I did, however, complete the positive one … and I did it honestly.
An interesting idea … I did something similar to this with my friends in junior high school and it ended up in a big tiff. 
Missed you and hope all is well!
hmm, interesting huh? Don’t get mad at me for answering the bad one..
) I had to really look and think about those and it took me forever to narrow down the good ones.
Love you bunches!! smooches and hugs!
~allie