November 10, 2007
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And to prove that things can always get worse……….
Aunt Pearl has died.
More later on how much I hate cancer.
Isn’t it funny how even in the grimmest, saddest situations you can still laugh through your tears. I got the funniest email from my aunt and then my Aunt Annie, called me at 5 a.m. in the morning and Pearl had died. We all are laughing and crying, mostly crying. There will be no more funy emails or pearls of wisdom from my lovely, vibrant Aunt Pearl.
Today is also the day that we are planting Cassie’s memorial tree. I don’t think I ever mentioned it but Cassie was an avid gardener and could grow anything, we are planting a Maple in the center of her garden this afternoon. She also told me, right before she passed, that she had several Navajo Willow cuttings for me and she was going to plant them in my front yard Next Spring her husband Pete, and Bear and I are going to do that for her. Cassie’s maiden name meant Willow by the water so I find it very appropriate.
I read the lovely comments that so many of you took the time to leave to both Cassie’s daughter and Pete, they said to say thank you for your thoughts and prayers. I also would like to thank you all…… for thinking of me and mine during these hard days. I see an end to this sadness and your prayers and good thoughts help me remember the joy I still have in my life. You make me remember the good times and the good memories instead of focusing on the bad, thanks guys your the best.
Comments (6)
My most heartfelt condolences to you and yours and theirs. All I can think is that the suffering is over. I may have finally run out of words….Bless you all.
Oh, Liz … I’m so sorry about Aunt Pearl. I am glad, though, that you are home and not going through all of this alone. It is easier to remember the funny, happy times when surrounded by people who shared those times too. I’m thinking of and praying for you and your family … as well as Cassie’s. Lots of love and hugs to you ..
I am so sorry! My condolences to your family sweetie. A memorial tree, how lovely-and a good, sturdy maple at that! Hugs…
so sorry about your aunt
How beautiful about Cassis and the willow plantings. That is certainly something you have to bring to fruition. What a beautiful way to remember someone you love, with a tree or a plant, that lives on and on.
I’m so sorry to hear that your Aunt Pearl has died. I know you’ll miss her and her humor. It’s good to know that your memories of her will bring giggles and a smile to your face. That’s a wonderful legacy.
Take care sweet girl.
I’m so sorry for your loss. {{{HUGS}}}